The message I gave concerned going inward, into the silence of your being, to talk and meditate with your Trusted Source, whether it be God, Spirit, or some other entity. Ask -- and be direct -- the questions you want specific answers to, and be willing to the responses.
Also the message contained how perhaps a relationship or friendship has evolved to the point of dissolve; that it may occurred because of the "need" for each has gone full circle. You've learned and grown from each other as much as you can; now it's time to put those lessons into practice. This process removes judgments and blame, allowing new blessings to enter into your life.
Do you have a relationship that is beginning to wane? Can you put aside the emotions of loss to see what you've gained?
"You must learn to first accept yourself before you can accept another."